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September 24th, 2005
Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda

I’ve been working on this chapter for five days. Argh!

I write a couple lines, go do something. Write another sentence, go do something else. It’s ridiculous.

It makes the work so much harder, because I repeat words. An hour passes, and I don’t remember I already used a particular word. I wish I could say this is an unusual circumstance, but that’s not true. I’m writing a sex scene (read: entire chapter) and since most of my character growth happens during sex, they’re always my most difficult scenes to write. My characters are not the same at the end of a sex scene as they were before it, so weaving in the GMC between bumping and grinding is very time consuming. This difficulty gets worse with every book I write, LOL, because I’m growing as a writer (I think) so I have more work to do with each successive novel.

Anyway, I’m finally wrapping up this chapter now. *sigh* :cheer:

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2 comments to “Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda”

  1. How funny! DH and I were just talking about character growth during sex scenes last night. I was trying to explain why it’s so hard for me to write short erotic romance, because every sex scene has to pack in a lot of character growth. He looked at me dubiously and said, “I don’t think *I* ever grew as a character during sex.” To which I replied, “Yes, but you were already perfect, dear.” *Snort*

    Anyway, sex scenes are hard for me to write, too, and that’s exactly the reason why. Glad yours is wrapping up!


  2. Glad you’re about to wrap it up and move on. I find the sex scenes take me a long time to write quite often too. Make it different. Make it fit the characters. Show some growth (CHARACTER growth! get your mind out of the gutter!! :naughty: )




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