Comments on: Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda http://www.sylviaday.com/blog/2005/09/24/650/ Weblog of National Bestselling, Award-Winning Novelist Sylvia Day Thu, 04 Dec 2008 06:06:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: kacey http://www.sylviaday.com/blog/2005/09/24/650/#comment-3648 kacey Sun, 25 Sep 2005 16:19:23 +0000 http://www.sylviaday.com/blog/?p=650#comment-3648 Glad you're about to wrap it up and move on. I find the sex scenes take me a long time to write quite often too. Make it different. Make it fit the characters. Show some growth (CHARACTER growth! get your mind out of the gutter!! :naughty: ) Glad you’re about to wrap it up and move on. I find the sex scenes take me a long time to write quite often too. Make it different. Make it fit the characters. Show some growth (CHARACTER growth! get your mind out of the gutter!! :naughty: )

]]> By: Ellen Fisher http://www.sylviaday.com/blog/2005/09/24/650/#comment-3647 Ellen Fisher Sun, 25 Sep 2005 10:52:12 +0000 http://www.sylviaday.com/blog/?p=650#comment-3647 How funny! DH and I were just talking about character growth during sex scenes last night. I was trying to explain why it's so hard for me to write short erotic romance, because every sex scene has to pack in a lot of character growth. He looked at me dubiously and said, "I don't think *I* ever grew as a character during sex." To which I replied, "Yes, but you were already perfect, dear." *Snort* Anyway, sex scenes are hard for me to write, too, and that's exactly the reason why. Glad yours is wrapping up! How funny! DH and I were just talking about character growth during sex scenes last night. I was trying to explain why it’s so hard for me to write short erotic romance, because every sex scene has to pack in a lot of character growth. He looked at me dubiously and said, “I don’t think *I* ever grew as a character during sex.” To which I replied, “Yes, but you were already perfect, dear.” *Snort*

Anyway, sex scenes are hard for me to write, too, and that’s exactly the reason why. Glad yours is wrapping up!

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