On Writing
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You’re published in both traditional print and e-book format, why?
I started out traditionally print published. Then I branched out into e-publishing for a variety of reasons: I write fast and in various sub-genres. Having multiple publishers allows me to write pretty much whatever I want. It also gives readers the opportunity to buy more books a year from me.
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Your stories span a variety of genres. How do you classify yourself?
I started out traditionally print published. Then I branched out into e-publishing for a variety of reasons: I write fast and in various sub-genres. Having multiple publishers allows me to write pretty much whatever I want. It also gives readers the opportunity to buy more books a year from me.
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I think of erotic books as being painful or angsty, or describing sexual toys/scenarios that I’m not familiar with. I’m not sure I can relate to them.
There are varying heat levels within the erotic genre. I write what some call “vanilla” sex in my books. One man and one woman using the equipment God gave them. I have one short story that uses “toys” (and only briefly), but none of my novels do.
That’s not to say that I object to them or that I won’t ever use them in my books. Just that, as of now, none of my novels feature sex beyond the “vanilla” variety. If you’ve had sex, you can relate to the sexual content of my books.
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Do you use a critique partner or group?
I have never used a critique group, but I’ve had critique partners in the past (not presently.) In my experience, the critique partner relationship has been tremendously valuable. It’s hard to see when your nose is pressed up against the glass. A cp can help you pull back and get the bigger picture. The dynamic isn’t for everyone, as it requires a great deal of trust and respect. But, personally, I enjoy it and find it very beneficial.
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Have all your books been erotic romance stories? Why do you think you’re drawn to that genre?
All my books do contain various levels of high sensuality. Some are erotic, some are erotica, some are simply sexy. (want to know the difference? Read my definitions here.) In my erotic stories, the pivotal turning points of the romance happen during the unguarded intimacy of lovemaking. Afterwards, the increased sexual tension between the characters as they struggle to stay emotionally distant while physically craving each other is powerful, and oftentimes heart wrenching. That’s where the joy of writing romance comes into play for me. Those moments in a love story are what make this job my dream career.
My urban fantasies are written under the pseudonym S.J. Day to clearly delineate them from my romances.
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Will you read my story and give me your opinion/quote/critique?
I believe strongly in giving back to the writing community. Watching aspiring authors reach their dream is a thrill for me, because I know how it feels. However, due to my writing schedule and demands, I barely have time for my family. I’m sorry, I cannot give critiques. I have been asked for author quotes, and those I will consider on a case by case basis–given a reasonable amount of time to fulfill the request. Going through my agent is the best way to ask.
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Is it difficult getting a book published?
I think success has a lot to do with your goals and the routes you’re willing to take to get there. Setting your sights on one of the huge publishing houses with only one manuscript to your credit will definitely make the process longer and more difficult.
The best advice I can give is to keep writing. Finish multiple manuscripts. Never send out a work you’re not 100% certain is as good as it can possibly be. Don’t fall prey to impatience. You only get one chance to make a good first impression.
Don’t take rejection too personally. A manuscript that sells is simply a combination of the right book, at the right time, with the right editor.
If an editor or agent offers you advice, take it!
Don’t dismiss smaller publishing houses. Don’t spite yourself by narrowing your choices.
And read, read, read. Look at what’s selling, look at the type of books you enjoy reading. Write what’s in your heart, it’ll show in your work.
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What was getting THE CALL like?
I was interviewed by Kelley St John about this very question! You can read my answers here.
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Do you write full-time?
Yes, and I consider myself very fortunate that I can.





